anyone ever given their spouse a sex coupon book? How did that work out for you?
At Christmas a year ago I custom made my own coupon book. some were tame like back rub, foot rub, shopping trip, etc. some were wild, like oral sex in the shower, masturbate while you watch, or I’ll be your sex slave and do what ever you want, I even included some blank coupons. it’s been a year, I have mentioned the coupons a couple of times but not one has been redeemed!
Posted on March 1, 2010 at 6:08 am by admin · Permalink
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In: Coupon Q&A · Tagged with: back rub, christmas, coupon book, coupons, foot rub, masturbate, oral sex, sex in the shower, sex slave, shopping, wild sex
on March 1, 2010 at 6:08 am
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How nice of you! That reminds me of that website that my wife and I tried … Hundred sex games … It is Erotic, in its noblest meaning. It was like falling in Love all over again. Our relationship reached a new level. You got the right approach.
http://www.fire-up-your-sex-life.com/
Now, she is not responding. You have not mentioned whether you and your wife are talking. If not, I urge you to. Communication is Key. Good luck!
on March 1, 2010 at 6:08 am
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We don’t need the coupons. Everything you mentioned lies but a whispered request away in our bedroom.
on March 1, 2010 at 6:08 am
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Lol. We’ve had them, and ended in the same result. Whether they were from Cosmo, home-made, or a sex game, we dont tend to use them.
At this point, if we can both find the energy and time to have sex, the last thing we want to do is stop to pull out the cards or roll the dice, especially if its only going to tell us something we usually do anyway.
Although, if you arent with the kind of girl/guy that does those things…I would recommend enforcing cards lol
on March 1, 2010 at 6:08 am
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Not everyone finds coupon books romantic.. (that sentence just sounds terrible, doesn’t it? ^_~)
I find this strategy makes the most sense when the recipient already feels unrequited or unsatisfied in some way, or when there is a communicational block. A coupon book is a great way to get the communication going again.. for a shy person to express their awkward desires.
If your spouse feels like she can get the attention she desires from you through normal means, she will never feel it is worth the effort to go crack open a book and fiddle with bits of paper.
So if you are the one who desires variety, then this is one of those "getting you what I want" presents. ^_~ You’ll need another tack to open the door to variety. Many are available, but I don’t know enough about your situation to give specific advice.
on March 1, 2010 at 6:08 am
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Logan gave me one for my birthday and I thought it was awesome. I think I have used all of the coupons by now. I in turn gave him one for his birthday and he has used some of them, but not all of them. Maybe your wife just doesn’t feel very sexy. There are a lot of reasons women don’t want to be sexually active anymore. Is she on any medications maybe? Or depressed, or going through menopause? Don’t feel bad about it! I still heart you!